This time next week I'll be another year older. Much has changed since my last birthday. Some good, some not so good.
The last 7 months were unexpected and a little difficult. Although my life is now moving in an unplanned direction, I am happy. I've learnt to live on my own again, to make decisions for me, that I have some really awesome friends, my family are always there for me, and that I will survive!
My birthday next Thursday doesn't just mean I'm a year older, it represents the beginning of my new life. It's the beginning of a new year, a new job, a new place to live, a new adventure. Who knows where it will lead or where I'll be when my birthday rolls around next May. I do know I'm going to enjoy the next year whatever it brings.
Yes, I still celebrate my birthday. I don't care how old I'm getting or that I'm in my forties. I know most of my friends and family don't care about their birthday and would rather just forget about it completely. Not me. I like getting birthday phone calls, texts, Facebook posts, letters etc. I like going out for lunch or dinner or having someone make me lunch or dinner. I love birthday hugs.
Usually I have a wish list a mile long. Not this year. We're in the process of packing up the house, and I'll probably be putting stuff into storage for a while until i decide what I want to be when I grow up. I don't need stuff.
This is my birthday wish list for this year:
To keep in touch with friends on a much more regular basis - Skype calls, emails, letters, coffee, texts, movies, hugs. Lots of hugs. No more once a year calls. The last few months have taught me how much I value my friends.
Last year Dave and I went to a Mexican restaurant for my birthday dinner, we celebrated with margaritas and deep fried ice cream. Then Rhonda and I went to Whistler for the weekend and had drinks with Alex and Sam.
Not sure what I'll do this year. My original plan was to invite 1/2 a dozen friends over for dinner.
But I'm going to be out of town. I'll be on the Sunshine Coast (here in BC, not in Queensland). The friend I will be with for the day isn't even aware that it's my birthday.
Don't be sad, I'm not. I plan on talking to lots of friends that day, even though I can't be with them in person.
I'm not yet sure what if anything I'll do for my birthday, however I can tell you I am going to enjoy it.
Maybe a nice glass of Tassie wine that I've been hoarding?